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Old 16th April 2014, 12:38 AM   #20
edgya1234
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Re: Question for men - I would apreciate your candid opinion

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You said that your sex life was very good, so why did the fact that he may not have wanted to do one or two things worry you? In many marriages there is one person who doesn't want to do something that the other does, that's where compromise and understanding comes in.
When you are married you cant always expect your own way. Its not as if he was rejecting sex completely, which is what some people have to deal with.
Well things were more complex than that, some of them I don't want to talk about however:
1. I was not aware that this was the problem.
2. He was not taking care of himself like he used to ( he go fat for a period ).
3. We had some issues within the marriage because he had a time when he didn't want to do anything ( I mean with his life).

So I assumed I had other issues. This is new, I believe to possibly be the issue after just talking to you guys and having an "Evrika"moment just yesterday - or two days ago. And after he brought it up several times. However we needed the distance in order to fix things.
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