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Old 16th April 2014, 01:41 PM   #27
edgya1234
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Re: Question for men - I would apreciate your candid opinion

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Many men do struggle with a women whose main priority is her career and earning lots of money. Men not surprisingly often want and need to be the main bread winner. I get that totally, maybe you need to as well? Men need respect from their wives, as women need love from their husbands.
Well in order to respect somebody he/ she has to earn it...? If he was the main provider we would probably never be here In the sense that it will be easier for him to go over things.
Now, when he is in the role of main provider, because my business went south due to various reasons, he is stressed out and he told me I have to help myself because he is not making enough money right now to keep paying the mortgage he had before marrying me etc.
So we are in a very bad spot. When I mostly need his help he is too stressed to offer it and calls me selfish for needing money from him...
Right now, I respect my younger brother more, at least he does not call me selfish for needing money for doctors and stuff
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