[toellandback]

I remember many years ago how immature I was. I dud similar things , I was out all the time. I had young children, a sick wife, a job to hold down. Eventually my relationships during those years ended. But it wasn't me that ended them. And believe me, it hurt. There I was , doing as I pleased , top of the hill. It was a long way to fall. It was only when my partner said enough, and meant it, that I tried to repair things. I do believe that if your strong and firm with him it is your best hope he will see sense.
It will not be long before the novelty wears very thin indeed.