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Old 27th February 2012, 12:28 PM   #7
Raymond
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Re: my partner seems to be addicted to being unfaithful

I understand your weakness Abby. We have come across it on here before. If you have relations with him then you are one flesh and that is very difficult to break, even though you know it is right in your head. Trouble is he doesn't count fidelity as precious. Even porn is a kind of mental adultery. It is really about doing the right thing now and saving your future.

You are in a very good position to do this. No children. Not married yet. Marriage just does not work when there is infidelity involved. It is a high calling but has enormous rewards. Better to start right than go on a path which is unstable from the start.

I know you are worried about the house. Is it his house? Do you not have anywhere else to go? If not you would be rehoused straight away in the UK. This could be a temporary solution. I think you need to think about these things and come to a place where you can take that option in view of his tendency to be unfaithful. You need to save yourself now before it is too late. Who knows whether it will not give him the shock that is needed.
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