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Old 5th April 2014, 05:41 PM   #3
Join Date: Dec 2006
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Re: Does flirting actually work?

I think I agree. Real matches are not about flirting which can be a kind of manipulation to get what you want. It is questionable what the reason for flirting is. I have a brother who flirted all the time and bedded many women. He has been on his own for the last thirty years regardless of how successful his tehcniques were in his younger days. His marriage didn't last two years.

My wife knew me as a person on a different level and fell in love with me without me knowing. There was no flirting whatsoever although we went out to get to know each other once I was told she was in love with me. I have been happily married for over thirty years and I was hopeless at flirting.
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