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Old 13th February 2013, 03:48 PM   #9
chosen
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Re: Wife left - because of extended family

One thing that a very controlling person will never do is to admit they are wrong. I cant believe that she has not only left you but her own children, and all because you wanted to stay in contact with your family. She is blaming you for her familes issues.
The fact that she has been looking for jobs in the UK shows that she has been thinking about leaving for some time. Maybe there is more to this than just that issue.

Raymond is so right about the children of controlling parents. I can think of two families immediatly that I know, where a very controlling mother has ruined the adult children. They cant cut the apron strongs, they cant make decisions, they have no desire to be independant, they find it hard to relate to people, and they allow others to walk all over them. Its very sad.
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