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Old 1st March 2013, 02:46 AM   #7
1aokgal
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Re: i dont want u back. give me money to build.

Forever...

You hit the nail on the head again! The lady is manipulative and pulling strings. She may feel he will be a fool easily led along her lines. Maybe she gets her name on a house deed as co-owner and then has immediate equity of more than he intended to give. The best option is he buys a small house in his name and allow her to rent with firm written lease of some rent and an understanding so no non-relative lives with her (as a new BF.) This is a thought but frankly, he owes her nothing. Unless his childrn are living in a slum they should be fine with equal time spent with each parent and firm visitation schedule set by a court.

Sad, how one can beat another over the head with remaining feeling when they have no intent to reciprocate any effort to a relationship. She is done, just getting what she can maneuver him to do for her. Advise...don't go there. Let her make it on her own only child support needed here and maybe temp help until she is suitably employed.
NOTE..no marriage existed so she is NOT an EX-wife but the EX-friend, with benefits, and children as a result of that. He owes her zero, except the help he chooses to give her.

Last edited by 1aokgal; 1st March 2013 at 02:52 AM.
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