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Old 25th February 2008, 03:16 PM   #396
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

Masturbation is not the answer unless your in jail or something but even then you might feel worse to the point of suicide..being you feel lonely after the act.

anyone can over come this bad habit slowly and once in awhile slip but no one is perfect.

lets look at it for what it is ...""having sex with someone else" , it will only put a wedge between the 2 of you

this is how the wedge starts... you masturbate... you have a fantasy... on another day you make love to your partner ...your mind wanders your expectation isn't met... you make LOUSY love... this puts a wedge in the relationship and if your partner finds out or already knows your masturbation has become part of your life style and you are a lousy lover this wedge gets bigger.

trust me i used to masturbate when i was a virgin it always made me feel gross and i tried to make it a good thing i was told by my counselor at school not to have sex but masturbate instead

and now i have a man who masturbates all i have is a sexless marriage due to his habit
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