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Old 22nd May 2012, 06:16 PM   #14
Beenthere2
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Re: Engagement weirdness: Help please

I was engaged to a man who never wanted to get married. Dragged his feet, hyperventilated just at the word 'marriage', at least it seemed to me.

Fast forward, I did meet a man who wanted to marry me. And he was the one pushing brochures and marriage things in my face. I saw the difference between someone who wants to get married, and someone who doesn't.

You love him, and it sounds like he loves you. Back off, and tell him you agree with him and throw the ball in his court. You on the other hand, enjoy the time you have together, but keep your eyes open.

Marriage can be great, but if you want a shot of reality, peruse the posts under Marriage Help....take your time.
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