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Old 1st November 2011, 11:25 AM   #18
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Re: Hearthbroken-Husband is leaving me

Originally Posted by 1aokgal View Post
There are a lot of pointers to situation he feels very depressed about with the weight gain and depression. He feels badly and he wants to do the right thing and he does not want his wife to be unhappy. He indicates he loves her but " is not in love with her" as he was at the beginning. Sorry, But I see things differently than others.

I do value a spirit of dialogue on this site where people can listen to one another without restrictions. There is little or no point of protecting this or that idea. If any of us would entertain a fixed position, it's no longer a free dialogue and it's bound to cause a distortion ending up with a constant adversarial tendency to no good whatsoever.

It's often very insightful to read your posts. Who knows? We have had some previous examples of what you have described. It's hard to say but from what I have read so far, this man is a very quiet participatory he would be in a couple therapy, I would wonder?
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