Thread: Mixed Signals
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Old 25th May 2013, 08:22 PM   #1
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Mixed Signals

Hi everyone!

I need some help with a relationship of mine. I've know this guy for almost 3.5 yrs now and we have been friends. Not the closest of friends but we do get in touch every once in a while. My friends as well as his friends tell me that he likes me and we would make a great couple. I also like him but I'm not so sure how he feels. For one he has never told his friends that he is interested in me...they just say that because of the way he acts around me. I remember before we got to know each other he would always disappear for a while when he would see me and then show up again after sometime. He is nice to me but he seems to be the same with other girls that I know (probably even more friendly to them than to me). He sometimes communicates with me a lot and even passes compliments but then there are phases where he goes quiet. When we talk he usually keeps it short so I've not really had a chance to 'bond' much. He often talks to me about finding a wife jokingly. I can't seem to figure him out . Is he interested in me as more than just a friend, am I just one of the options he has or does he look at me as just a friend? Should I keep our relationship in the friend zone or should I pursue it further?

P.S: Please don't tell me to ask him directly whether he likes me. I don't have the courage to do that and in case he doesn't see me in that way I would hate to make our friendship weird in addition to going through the embarrassment
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