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Old 25th June 2013, 04:33 PM   #20
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Re: child produced from affair with married man

I agree with Raymond. He is half hearted about the marriage, and until he is prepared to decide if he wants to be with you, or have her and the child, what sort of marriage is it. If he isn't even prepared to tell the other woman that you are his wife and that he will not be living with her, then there really is no marriage.
Raymond is right, my father, while a good dad in many ways, did have a long affair with another woman, and I wish my mother had given him an ultimatum of 'her or me'. She didn't and it drove her to depression and despair in the end. Don't let it do that to you.
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