Thread: I can't let go!
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Old 4th September 2013, 06:26 AM   #4
chosen
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Re: I can't let go!

HI Pamela
In your position I would need to sit down with him, maybe in a counselling setting, and get to the bottom of this. He at least owes you that. I personally wouldn't put up with this cheating in whatever form that is taking. How can you make any decisions if you dont know the truth about what has happened and is happening? Once you find out exactly what is going on, then you can decide what to do.
If you carry on in ignorance surely you are enabling his behaviour. If he knows that there will be consequences to his actions, then he may think again.

Why not have a deep think and write down what you want to know and what you want to happen., Then say that you want to go to counselling. If he refuses, have you got a friend who you both trust who you can go to instead? Nothing will change unless you change it yourself. He is happy with the best of both worlds, so why does he need to stop all this?
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