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Originally Posted by Bellx15
Regarding this "All these years together", I have been thinking about it just recently.
It seems to me that one thing that happens when a partner is rejected is that everything that went before is thereby rejected with it. In fact it might not be rejected, but that is how it can feel.
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Well that's why I dont see the point of thinking like that. Looking back with regret is a pointless exercise I have discovered. Learn from the past, accept that in all marriages there are good times and bad times, and concentrate on now. We all make mistakes, and do things we regret, but that's surely how we learn?
Use all of that and move on is the best policy I have found. Neither my husband or I look back now, we have a good life and a good future ahead. We have so much to be thankful for.