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Old 19th April 2013, 04:30 PM   #4
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Re: When marriage meets physical disability-Urgent Advice please

1) Taking your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem...not the best choice. There is a future for you in spite of her, and your children would be left being raised w/o your example of good character, love and stability.

2) Go see a solicitor and find out what your parental rights are and find out what you would need to do to implement them in the worst case scenario...do not tell her that you are doing this...it will escalate her hatred. Yes, hatred.

3) Do not give her anything. Let her earn whatever she wants like the rest of us do. Her treatment of you is outrageous and unless she was respectful and loving, you need not bother with her demands.

4) Take an inventory of your good qualities as a man and as a potential husband for someone else. Hold on to those qualities and in fact, plan on it. This marriage will not be saved...it is too toxic.
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