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Old 8th January 2016, 01:45 PM   #3
chosen
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Re: I'm falling out of love - with the love of my life.

I so agree with raymond. Women think they can do it all but they cant. If she has a demanding job as well as caring for 3 children, two of whom are not her own, one of whom is very young, something will give and for you its the sex. However, most couples dont agree on how often they want sex or what they want from sex, so its about compromise. If you want sex twice a week and she is ok with twice a month, then how about once a week? Could she work part time for a few years till the children are older?
You are expecting her to be the same as you sexually, but she is herself. She has her own thoughts and ideas on sex.

I wonder, if you have talked about this and made sure that she knows your feelings and how this is affecting you, but nothing has changed, can you go and see a marriage counsellor yourselves?
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