1aokgal

Hi Forever..

Thanks for welcome.

You know me..blunt and direct. Sad situation above for this lady. Yes, he is all of these things and terribly immature or maybe just clever. After all, he may be on the internet all the time while she works. We have seen that many times that a man plays video games or has intrigues with others on internet..cybersex, that keeps him glued there. So long as another pays the bills he is free to play there.

This man needs a rude awakening! Problem for survivor ... Is she afraid to make an ultimatum? Has this man some power over her? Would he get nasty or combative if confronted over these issues? Also is this man depressed? Is there a history in his family of severe depression. His lethargy and avoidance of responsibility is one of the signs. I hope this situation is looked at from all angles.

Survivor has come out of a previous marriage and perhaps the "Law of Attraction" whereby she was not healed from previous problems got her into an ill advised or hasty 2nd marriage. Happens to many women when confidence is low and loneliness means one is glad to find another marriage. This marriage was no sanctuary for Survivor. We just hope she thinks what she needs for her future and takes a strong stand now. Perhaps that shocks this man into change.

We hope for the best result for happiness here.