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Old 31st October 2011, 06:22 PM   #13
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Re: Hearthbroken-Husband is leaving me

Originally Posted by Daisy View Post
I can't do anything else but accept what he says. My head is so tired of thinking about where it all went wrong.
What else can I do?
Hi Daisy

I do admire your saner approach.
It is so sad to discard a perfectly functional marriage to my mind. Your h should at least, give more time and effort in repairing his marriage.

You know you have heard about the book called "I love you but I am not in love with you" by Andrew G Marshall.

Your h sounds more like, "well, this marriage was a mistake after all, maybe, a new relationship can make me happy." Are you sure your h isn't finding a relief from his unhappy marriage else where? Are you sure it was gambling that he had spent so much money on? Sometimes, financial irresponsibility could be associated with cheating.

He is obviously making mistakes from deciding not to work on the marriage. I do wonder if he's already distracted by another love interest? Hope that is not the case.

Isn't it so awful finding yourself in this right now but believe me many of us have been through this. Stay strong xx
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