I will wait until I get evidence of her 'other' activities. In public (in presence of friends) she kept acting her loving spouse charade .... hugging, caring for me. Once home, a changed animal appeared .... kept phone with her wherever she goes and hardly talk to me. She just go off to room and sleep. Not even wishing me 'good night'.
I am acting cool and pretend not to noticed her changed behaviour at home. I want to catch her red handed and divorce her. I suspect she may have taken a life insurance on me and was disappointed when I got better. Kept encouraging me to travel oversea ... ON MY OWN?????
The reason I do not want to divorce her out-right was the over 20 years we have been happily married. Waiting for her wrong move.