[mirry]

Thanks guys- you have confirmed what i was thinking already. it is a very painful time for me the one person i depended on the most has let me down and not only that, had a personailty transplant and started to treat me like **** and push me aside!! not what i need atall :-( i have tried to tell him its me or him about his friend but it has pushed him further and further away and he's said his 'demands' need to be met that he meets with this friend once a month atleast!! and he has even said himself this friend HATES me and cannot stand me and wont be around me.. its all scary i hate to give up on my marriage when i do love him so much but i have too much self respect to be treated like this and i literally dont like him anymore as a person. it's odd how someone treating you so **** so many times can do that...