Thread: Threesome?
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Old 10th December 2013, 08:48 PM   #24
chosen
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Re: Threesome?

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Originally Posted by pmsc69 View Post
Wow! I am shocked.... I won't lie. I have tried it myself but with a couple and I was much younger and curious. I was so sure that I was going to be highly aroused by it but in fact it did nothing for me and I did not enjoy it. It is true that most men would rather have 2 women in a three sum. But I can't see how this is love. This only only ever works for people who do not love each and only stay together because it suits their life style and not marriage. Personally I could not and will not do that with anyone I love. My ex girlfriend that has destroyed my trust in women asked me if I wanted wanted to do this. Correction. She said that she wanted wanted to see me with another woman and that she also wanted me to make love to her while she enjoyed the other other woman. Normally I would get aroused by that but because I had strong feelings for her and could not see another person (man or woman) touch her in that way I refused. She got upset about it and commented that it is every man's dream to have two beautiful women in their their bed. The only reply I gave her was "if I was single and I I did not love you I most probably would do because I would not care about you. Because I love you I could not seen another person touch you like that. It would hurt and destroy us". She still did not seem happy about my response. So I finished off with "how would you feel if I actually enjoyed it and then started seeing her behind your back or left you for her? Would you feel good about it?" That seemed to work as she she never mentioned it again after that.

So in theory.... I think that most people do not think about long term or the affect it can have on a relationship. There was a couple on the news some years ago where they had a three sum with another man. The husband insisted on it and persuaded her into it. She never wanted it but did it to please him. Well when it happened he got so jealous that she was enjoying herself with another man that he beat them them both and put them into hospital. Goes to show that people do not think about these things.
Firstly she was very wrong in saying that it is every mans dream to have two women in his bed, it isn't. That's what the media and the porn makers want us to think. Its a lie. Most good men are more than happy with their wife/partner.
Second don't let that one mixed up lady destroy your trust in women. She is one lady out of millions upon millions. If I had let what my father and ex husband did destroy my trust in men, I wouldnt be happily married now to a wonderful man.

A marriage without faithfulness isn't a marriage . When we marry we promise to be faithful and to forsake all others.
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