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Old 11th June 2013, 08:45 AM   #12
Raymond
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Re: Porn addiction - Leave him?

You need to give him the opportunity to change I would say Carmen by confronting his behaviour, if you haven't already. This is no way for him to conduct his marriage. Sex should be between the two of you.

If he refuses to give it up then I would say it is on the level of mental adultery. There is a difference between someone who has developed this problem and is trying to change and someone who refuses to acknowledge anything is wrong. You need to confront to find out. Not in a militant way but confront all the same. If he refuses to acknowledge that anything is wrong then the marriage is going nowhere in my opinion. I would keep on this tack until he really gets the message, then at least you know you have done your best. As for ending the marriage that must be your choice not ours although I would say in certain situations when porn reaches certain levels it can be grounds for divorce as it is mental adultery in my book.
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