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Old 9th January 2014, 07:14 PM   #169
Raymond
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Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Who knows if your father and mother had had good counseling whether the marriage would improved? I believe in commitment but one also needs to be willing to work on a marriage. Staying together needs to be more than a legal thing of course. The marriage needs life in it which comes when they both work at love. Personally I take the vows very seriously and because of that I will work hard at it if need be. Most of the problems come with selfishness I am beginning to understand and that goes to the root of who we are.

Why are you not able to be loved by your spouse? Please clarify.
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