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Old 2nd April 2013, 04:50 PM   #6
chosen
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Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

Yes but she has had 2 affairs now and didnt come out of the 'fog' after the first one. I am not suggesting that you discard her, but that you set clear conditions for the marriage to carry on.
1) she gets counselling on her own, along with anger managment,
2) she stops seeing any other men and with no more chances, and
3) you get marriage counselling together.
She needs to know that her actions have consequanses.We even teach small children that.

Cant help thinking of my brother who had his wife back after 2 affairs, She went on to have 2 more and is now married to the 4th lover.

Being a mother and wife isnt something that you do to get rewards??? Having that family and those healthy kids is reward enough.I think her view of married life is skewed.
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