[Raymond]

There is a deception going on here, not with you but with them Lulu. They obviously have become kindred spirits. It does happen but what you do with it is important. They are getting very close to adultery if only mental or emotional.

If he believes in the bible why doesn't he live by it? i.e. "Husbands love your wives with the same love that Christ shows for the church. He gave up his life for her. In the same way husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man is actually loving himself when he loves his wife. No one hates his own body but lovingly cares for it."
Eph 5:25/29

That kind of love only belongs to the wife.

Raymond