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Old 11th June 2009, 08:46 AM   #4
Raymond
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Re: Marriage to a wife or Mother in law?

Briefly it is pretty obvious that your mother in law excercises a control spirit over her daughter. This is quite powerful as you have discovered. Probably the apron strings have never been severed. It's because the mother has never let her go and is hanging on to her as a child. This will stunt the growth of your wife and she will never be free until she stands up herself against this wrong control. At the moment the mother is succeeding and believe it or not sees you as competition for her daughter.

Control is a really ugly thing underneath it all and will stop at nothing to get it's way. You did well to stand up against it. I believe the mother will be playing on the daughters guilt and will be very clever at it. If you get a chance you need to live as far as possible away from the mother. Does the father see any sense or is he under her control?

It's the daughter who needs to free herself as the mother will never release her voluntarily. Does your wife even know what's going on.

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