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Old 20th October 2014, 09:54 AM   #3
Raymond
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Re: Cripes what have i done!

I agree with what Ronnoco says. I think the missing link is that you are relying too much on feelings and not enough on commitment to your wife. Love is an act as well as a feeling. We can do that even when we don't feel it. It's called working on your marriage. You have not been honest about your philandering which is a sure recipe for weakening a marriage. I feel for your wife quite honestly as this is the second time it has happened to her. If you are still listening I think you need to decide whether you are going to be a faithful husband or not. Until you decide that I don't see a solution for them or you.
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