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Old 19th May 2011, 10:23 PM   #186
chosen
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Re: How do I take the final step?

Heather, you ARE in mourning. Just because he is still alive, doesnt mean that you wont mourn as if he had died. I once heard a wise person say that loosing a spouse through death, and loosing a spouse through divorce, are very similar, except that in divorce the corpse is still walking around.
You have lost your husband, and you have lost your marriage. You need to mourn and you will be very sad.

Its still so hard to believe that anyone can act so bady, even though I have seen so much of this sort of terrible behaviour.I am so sorry that you have had to deal with it. I doubt the new relationship will last(few relationships that have started by an affair do last), but that is his problem now.
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