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Raymond · 26th December 2013, 04:46 PM

It seems to be that way. It takes two to work on a marriage. His sexual attraction is not enough without commitment to you and the marriage. It is a wonderful thing when within a committed relationship but on it's own it can be demeaning for the woman.

About past suffering and problems tdl. It is not God that designs these things. Jesus said that the whole world lies under the wicked one. However, amazingly, God can use the bad things that happen to us for good in the end. Not that He designed them. His best is being brought up by loving parents but if our soil is bad He can use it for good.

If he has chosen to end it what can you do? As Roses hinted you don't want to live in some halfway house. It wouldn't work. He has to know his own mind and anything less than total commitment is a basis for instability with regard to marriage.

26th December 2013, 04:46 PM	#27
Raymond Moderator Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6,409	Re: When is enough really ENOUGH!!! It seems to be that way. It takes two to work on a marriage. His sexual attraction is not enough without commitment to you and the marriage. It is a wonderful thing when within a committed relationship but on it's own it can be demeaning for the woman. About past suffering and problems tdl. It is not God that designs these things. Jesus said that the whole world lies under the wicked one. However, amazingly, God can use the bad things that happen to us for good in the end. Not that He designed them. His best is being brought up by loving parents but if our soil is bad He can use it for good. If he has chosen to end it what can you do? As Roses hinted you don't want to live in some halfway house. It wouldn't work. He has to know his own mind and anything less than total commitment is a basis for instability with regard to marriage.