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Originally Posted by ralfgarnett
But as she wont be looking after the kitties I will then have to backtrack and tell her I'm not going but really I will go and my neighbour can keep an eye on things for me, I think im beginning to get a bit confused, this is the problem with ruses you can easily trip yourself up with them which is why I don't use them very often, I just used to be 100% truthful with her about everything, I'm just not a good lier, from time to time over the years she used to laugh and say to me that she knew she could always trust me and that I could never have an affair because if I did I would end up telling her about it.
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I'm not suggesting you lie.
I did suggest you go away for the weekend (not a lie)
I didn't suggest you tel her why (this would be a lie)
See now?
You've said it many a time 'Do they think about us and what we are doing?'. Well, this is an opportunity for you to get away for a bit which will be good for you AND to get her thinking 'What's he up to?'.
We can always refine it but what you shouldn't do is blurt anything out to her. The cats were a reason to get her interested in a minimal way. This is GAL in action.