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Old 14th May 2016, 03:39 PM   #1
Gary123
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Heartbroken & Need advice

Hi everyone, new to the forum and 1st time poster. I need advice or help for those of you with a bit more experience than myself. I married my partner last year after being together 9 years. We have always had an amazing relationship and only once did we ever had a serious fall out (about 7 years ago) that resulted in her staying with her parents for 2 weeks. So my problem is.....

We married last year in Spain a dream we both shared we had the most amazing time and joined by 40 friends/family it was perfect. We did have some problems on the lead up to the wedding we lost a family member & my wife sold her business that was no longer profitable other than that it was a smooth ride. No jitters, no panic or last minute rethinks etc just the perfect wedding. Since we have returned home my wife started a new job that has seen her working 90+ hours per week as it involves wedding planning, events etc so we haven't had much time together to build this new married life (other than a trio to Vegas in November 15) just around a month that ago my wife told me she didn't feel she was in love anymore and that we never do anything together. I explained that all I want to do is spend time together and that her job as much as I support it is a new issue in that she has no real free time. She has since moved to her parents 2 weeks ago and has said her feeling are still the same and that her priorities have changed and she's not sure if that will ever change back. It has absolutely destroyed me and I'm heartbroken I never for a second see this coming and certainly not 11 months into a marriage after being together for 10 year now in total. She had a slight nervous breakdown due to stress of new job etc and she hasn't been the same since and I worry this is clouding her mind. All I want is to help her and fix this but when I try to.talk to her she shuts me out and goes silent and that frustrates me.

Has anyone had a similar experience and can help me understand the situation or offer any advice as to what I should do? Yes it's a 10 year relationship and we know own each other well but marriage is new to both of us and I just don't know how to deal with all of this.

Sorry for the long winded post and if you made it this far I hope you're willing to offer up so. Words of wisdom. Thanks in advance to anyone who offers advice.
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