Thread: Am I a fool?
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Old 15th May 2011, 07:41 PM   #8
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Re: Am I a fool?

I am sure he is a lovely guy, no doubt about that. You would not knowingly marry a monster or have three children with him. But his personality is not what is in question here...his character is. A lovely guy that has a weakness for the ladies and getting his ego and other parts stroked is what the problem is. The fact that he is a married man with three young children is in a different catagory for him. He may feel that he can handle having both.

You are human, and the further you distance yourself from the emotional impact of not being able to trust him, the better off your children will be. There are many things you can do to endure this without calling it "quits" if that is what you wish to do...but you cannot have it both ways. You cannot dictate his moral choices for him without him consenting to it, and if you try to hold him accountable without consequences then you are no more than hot air blasting in his direction.
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