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Old 3rd May 2013, 09:53 AM   #235
chosen
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Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

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Originally Posted by freddie View Post
Forever,

Yes, I separated the money a couple of months ago. As she has no sense with money, she is already broke. She had claimed her legal costs from me for the divorce, my solicitor said no and now she has withdrawn her claim for costs. I have no idea where she is going to get money for the divorce from. She owes £7500 in her credit cards already, and now she will have to pay for everything in the house. As I said it before, the other day I had to lend her £20 for the train to go to work the following week.

I know she is just going to hide her head in the sand until I come to rescue her from disaster like I have always done, but this time I will not be there.
No you must not rescue her because you are then enabling her bad behaviour.If she wants out of the marriage she will need to learn to budget and pay off her debts.
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