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Old 26th August 2010, 06:56 PM   #30
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Jen!

Good to hear from you, I was worried about you. You sound a little steadier, I'm really glad to hear that. How's school going?

I've been reading Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You by Susan Elliott. I like the fact it doesn't rule out a reconciliation (yeah, living in hope at this end too) but shows practical ways of having a long, hard look at what's going on in your life and relationships and ways of dealing with it. She mentions abandonment theory and grief therapy, boundaries etc. and talks you through life and relationship inventories. She pulls together a whole raft of ideas and concepts and applies them directly to our situation.

I've got next weeks off on holiday, staying with my sisters so won't be around much. But please keep us updated.

Huge hugs,

Axx
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