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Old 24th October 2014, 03:57 PM   #2
chosen
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Re: she's pregnant for him

I feel for you so much this is so painful for you. You must decide whether you can willingly bring up this child as your own, and I think some good legal advise is needed here, as to whether you could go after him for maintenance, or whether you can legally adopt him.

Your wife was very stupid, you are to be admired for staying with her in this situation, but if you do remain, you will need some marriage counseling because this wont just go away on its own.
Can you love this child as your own? Or will he or she always remind you of her betrayal? Would she agree to have the child adopted to a couple who are desperate for a baby? That may be a compromise.
I can fully understand you not wanting to have sex with her. I am not sure I could ever have sex again with a man who did this to me, that's why adultery is so very serious, and that's why if you do stay, you need to tell her that if she ever does this again the marriage is over.

Last edited by chosen; 24th October 2014 at 10:13 PM.
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