[Raymond]

I think you did very well to make the effort Bob. For listening and massaging her feet. Wives do want to be listened to and share. It will pay dividends. It doesn't mean you have to listen to everything just for the sake of it but when you know she wants to share and you have opportunity it is a very good thing to learn. One gets better at it with practice. You will get time to read your Clancy novel and do things you want to but the timing is important and this time you used the opportunity well. Keep up the good work.