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chosen · 15th February 2011, 02:59 PM

Heather its really good to hear from you.
From what you said, it seems that you are moving on and sorting things out with the help of counselling, but that he hasnt done anything about ending it with the OW, which isnt good. If he really loved you(as he says in the card) he would have ended it months ago. Love is far more than words. I suspect he is still hanging on to her in case you decide not to be with him, and he is still showing no repentance at all.
Sad, but at least it may help you to decide what decision to finally make.
Sometimes in counselling you can feel worse before you feel better. but persevere and soon you will feel real benefit.
God Bless and keep in touch.

15th February 2011, 02:59 PM	#167
chosen Registered User Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 5,794	Re: How do I take the final step? Heather its really good to hear from you. From what you said, it seems that you are moving on and sorting things out with the help of counselling, but that he hasnt done anything about ending it with the OW, which isnt good. If he really loved you(as he says in the card) he would have ended it months ago. Love is far more than words. I suspect he is still hanging on to her in case you decide not to be with him, and he is still showing no repentance at all. Sad, but at least it may help you to decide what decision to finally make. Sometimes in counselling you can feel worse before you feel better. but persevere and soon you will feel real benefit. God Bless and keep in touch.