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Old 22nd May 2011, 05:54 PM   #192
chosen
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Re: How do I take the final step?

Heather, you are right. You will need to keep him away for your well being. My husbands former wife, who did what your husband has done by meeting someone else, thought that they could still be 'friends' and that he would still do things for her and go over at her beck and call, even after he had married me!!!
Eventually he had to make it crystal clear that this was no longer going to happen, and since then, (5 years ago) we have only seen her once at their adults sons baptism 4 years ago.I suspect that you will be like us, in that you will only meet at the childrens weddings or similar events when you both want to be there.

I have to say though, that if I were his sister or mum, while I know that I would still love him, I would never want the OW in my house and would tell him so.I couldnt condone their relationshiop by welcoming her into my house, but thats just me.He would be able to come if he liked, but not her.
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