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Old 21st May 2012, 05:41 PM   #3
chosen
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Re: Relationships & Depression

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I think that you need to go and see the doctor because you may well need medication to help you. Secondly, find a really good counsellor(maybe the doctor will recommend someone) and talk it out with them. It will help so much just do to these 2 things, and then when you are feeling a bit better, get out there. Do a hobby or sport(exercise is brilliant for depression) or join a club or whatever it takes to meet people and to feel part of the human race again.
I think that you know that you werent ready for another relationship, and thats why you clung onto her for comfort. Thats what many do, and that is why so many second marriages fail. If I were you, I wouldnt considering another relationship until you feel emotionally strong and healthy again, which will probably take a couple of years or so.
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