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Old 19th April 2013, 07:06 AM   #1
judonski
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When marriage meets physical disability-Urgent Advice please

At 29 for God’s sake yet it seems she remains extremely immature and needs to grow up.
She comes across as very manipulative and repeatedly threatens to leave with our kids…………3 of them(under fives)
Warning me that "her" kids will never step foot on their fatherland ie my family house......saying "over my dead body"
Doesn’t speak to anyone in my family-has had heated argument with my sister on the phone a while ago and was swearing all day.
Telling me that "women" have more right in "this country "and my choices are limited………..translating to the expectation that she will have more rights than me.
It is forbidden(from where she's from) for a woman to earn money for her husbands use.
I have my plans and may execute it one day..........what I hear in the middle of arguments.
Making mockery of me over my disability, telling me to ask my father or my people to arrange a carer for me as she is not my carer.
Getting lots of attention these days from men she tells me-postman,delivery man,builders,doctors,mall,churches
Men are even promising her marriage in her dream
Appears to fancy single motherhood status so much these days as we are living in “Britain”.and discusses the gains so passionately.

Latest trouble was over a little argument she initiated last night-basically asking me to purchase a washing machine for her parents.

I still love her massively and am making huge plans to arrange a decent career for her.

My fear is why bother myself so much for her given the above.



I hope I'm understood,sorry bad structure

Last edited by judonski; 19th April 2013 at 04:41 PM.
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