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Hi Wiggle

In our first session my H seemed to do most of the talking too. Hopefully it will even out in future sessions and you will get a chance to express yourself. The good thing about counselling is he can't be mean to you there because of the counsellor being present, so he'll have to really think about what he says to you.

It's a shame it degenerated into him having his usual go at you. Obviously he will need to get over those issues and put them to be/accept them if he's to move on. He seems stuck in a groove with it. Sounds a bit like the blame shifting my H does.

When are you going back?
Love Kathryn
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