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Old 13th April 2010, 06:23 PM   #14
UpandDown
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Re: Long term relationship on the rocks

OMG........ What will you do about the meet up? When I had my meeting with H on Saturday (which turned into us breaking up) I went with a really clear idea in my mind of what I wanted out of it. I also prepared in my mind answers to everything he might say. In your case, you know the sort of thing he says as he is like a bloomin' stuck record......so you can keep saying "be that as it may, what about X" or "yes I agree that is the case, but what we're talking about right now is Y". It all depends if you feel strong enough to meet with him. If not you could say yes to meeting him with a counsellor present instead? I agree you definitely need to find out what it's about so you can prepare yourself.

Also, it's great that he's contacted you. Maybe he'll apologise for the things he said? (We can hope!!)

Love Kathryn
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PS I live in Surrey. If you live near me perhaps we can meet up one day?
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