kirsten25

I just wanted to share my experience. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. Just recenly I found out some things my husband have been doing for the past year. He is a sex addict, it started with pornography, and then stripclub, and lastly he went to a massage parlor with happy ending. My husband came clean and told me he has a problem, and told me that he has been cheating on me. It was reallt devastating, I never thought I would happen to me, but it did. So, what Im trying to say is it's not just looking just because of their se sex drive, it is a problem and it should be taken care of, not ignaroed, because it can escalade to more things. And it will consume him, he wouldn't be able to function without it. Right now my husband and I are trying to work things out, but it's really hard, we are going to counseling, and try to be more honest with each other. If you are going to get married, honesty is the key to a good marriage. My love me, and I love him but this thing still happened. So, just talk to him, and maybe he can get help about while it still early.