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Old 4th November 2004, 07:52 PM   #26
D8304
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

I'm having the same problem as many have described above. Me and my husband have been married for almost 4 years (together for 6) and we have a 3 year old daughter. He started looking at porn while I was pregnant with our daughter, which hurt a lot...it definately didn't make being pregnant any easier. Needless to say our sex life went to nothing during that time. Things did get better, and we were having an active sex life again, but the porn was still there just not as much. Now he's looking at porn every morning before work, and we have sex once a month if I'm lucky. I've put a keylogger on his computer, and it shows me all the sites he visits so I know for a fact that he's doing it. I've talked about this with him numerous times, I tell him how bad it hurts me and makes me feel. He gives just tells me 'nobody elses wives care, your the other one it bothers' pretty much just excuses that everyone else has said they were getting to. It hurts even more that I have told him how I feel and he just disregards my feelings. I'm at a point where I'm not sure what to do, it doesn't look like he's gonna stop...and the thought of him doing it makes me sick to my stomach .
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