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Old 2nd January 2005, 06:01 AM   #58
KellyJ
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

LOVEY: I've done alot of research on men, marriage and porn. I just wanted to let you know that being angry about the lies more than the porn itself is very, very common with women. Many marital and sex therapists have a hard time understanding this. I have read posts from other women in your situation on other web sites where they actually say things like ---I don't really even mind if he watches the porn as long as he doesn't lie to me about it.

The lies seem to be the core problem in many of these cases and the women who have this attitude (as opposed to feeling inferior to the pornobabes) are really the strong ones, the women who have a fair amount of good self esteem and who feel that truth and respect are the really important things in a marriage.

I just want you to know that others share your feelings and your attitude.
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