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Old 20th November 2004, 03:53 PM   #34
Charlie0015
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

Liz...what you said about porn planting images is very true. And it's not just that porno babes are usually better looking than your average wife, it's also that they will do anything sexually. And this in itself can put pressure on a marriage.

Things tend to escalate when it comes to the types of turn on's a husband who watches alot of porn wants from his wife. It may start innocently enough with a simple request to wear something sexy. But it may go beyond that as the guy wants to reproduce what he's seeing in the videos. He askes her to shave, maybe get breast implants. He starts asking for anal sex and to give her "facials" He may ask to bring a third party in to the bedroom or for her to allow him to tie her up. This would all be OK if the wife agrees but for hard core pron users where does it stop?

Porn users get desensitized to what they are watching very quickly and need harder and harder action to get turned on. The video producers understand this and work hard to create harder and harder sex scenes in their films.

MOST men just watch once in awhile and that's it, but for the daily user the marriage can start to fall apart. Reading previous posts here you can see what the consequences are.
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