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Old 4th May 2006, 06:04 PM   #4
Lovey
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Re: today

I'd believe what he says for what it is. He assumes it's the same thing and unless something new has popped up or you've had an epiphany, he may not want to know about it. That's okay if he doesn't want to know for now. It's about you. That's something to remember that you're doing it for you. If you do gain some new insight, you can happily relay this to him!

I hear you. Crying gives me a headache too. There are other ways of getting anger and hurt out. Do you exercise? It helps me. Might help you! Keeping it in isn't healthy for you. In the end when it comes out, it comes out in illnesses sometimes, and in yelling matches with your H. I've learned from experience that it only scares them away!!

Yes, reverted anger can cause deep depression, Helen. It starts out as hurt, deep hurt and if you don't admit that you're hurt it turns to anger then depression. If you are vulnerable enough to tell H that you're feeling hurt by his porn watching and lies it's better for you in the long run. I know it's hard to be vulnerable but like I said. It's best for you. more hugs for you.
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