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Old 6th May 2013, 05:05 PM   #25
Forever
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Re: When marriage meets physical disability-Urgent Advice please

Sweetheart, the Lord is exposing the truth to you...not so you can take your life or someone else's, but so you can turn to Him and allow Him to guide you specifically on how to proceed.

You will get into eternity soon enough as we all will...but for now, be willing to push forward and do what is necessary concerning those children, including yourself.

You are NOT experiencing anything uncommon to many who come here...the only difference is that you have a disease on top of the infidelity to deal with. Those are two different problems, so you must be discouraged, especially if your focus is on both at the same time. Separate the two and focus on securing the children as well as the help you will need to care for them.

DEAL with the marriage breakdown and infidelity FIRST!! It is draining to the soul and toxic to your body to live like that. Do what any man would do given an unfaithful hateful wife and get out of it! You will not change her mind, nor will you get compassion from the likes of her. Secure all the time you can get with your children by using a good Solicitor and don't wait around for your wife to take the upper hand and snatch the children.

What is your situation regarding the house you are in? Can you afford to walk away from it and get yourself a place...and hire a full time live-in nanny to help with the kids when you have them with you?
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