Re: How to move on
I think eventually you will need to deal with any bitterness that may result in his betrayal. Don't get me wrong, what he did was terrible but an aspect of healing is in forgiveness so that you are free to live your life. Not that it will restore relationship. It won't it seems. This may take time but I don't see an alternative if you don't want this to affect the rest of your life in a negative way.
Part of moving forward is accepting that it has happened and having a funeral for him. This should stop any unecessary depression.
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