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Old 11th July 2011, 02:52 PM   #6
Helen_uk
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Re: verymuddled

I'd say you're probably feeling sensitive after your H's affair and your self esteem is probably suffering too. The key to why you're suddenly tempted by another man is there in your post , you adored your H and never looked at another man - nor wanted to . Your H has betrayed your trust and left you vulnerable.

I think you know deep down that getting attached to someone else isn't a good thing to do or you would have just gone ahead and done it.

If you've agreed to give your H another chance then you should put all your energy into that , if you're not 100 % sure it's what you want then you need to think further about it . Either way involving someone else is never a good idea.
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